Memories-Express Yourself

                                     “Express Yourself.”

jeannineIn January 2005, this shot captures my personality: Simplicity, dreamer,thinker and my joie de vivre. It was taken during one of the happiest moments of my life; our wedding anniversary,celebrating my son’s first birthday, a visit back home after being away for two years and my sister’s wedding all squeezed in  three weeks. Perfection!

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Follow Through

A big question that I sometimes ask myself…How can you expect people to believe in you if you  lie to yourself? Have I ever lied to myself? Heck yeah! When? The many times I promised myself to do something and then I did not see it through. My attitude has changed now…I guess I’ve matured a lot and I no longer spend much time with the ‘Airy Fairy’🙂

We  have all come across many people who talk about their massive plans, dreams and aspirations  but  for some reasons these plans are never materialised. When you ask them about the plans,  you never get a straight answer. These are the people we stop believing in eventually as they never stay true to their word.

Having left my native country at the height of my career, I had to do a lot of adjustment to both my personal life and career.  It was family first and career second but I had big career dreams. I am not quite there yet but I have never stop dreaming and I keep focusing on my professional development and strengthening my love for what I do best. I am still building on my  self-confidence and setting myself targets. If there is something my late father taught me in this life is that nothing is impossible to achieve if you really put your heart in it.

Here are 5 steps you can use to see things through:

1.Write things down (To Do List) with a date/year you want to achieve it, this will give you something tangible to ‘tick off’ as you achieve it.You can always make changes along the way.

2.Share your plan with someone you trust because then you will have someone to give you a push here and there when you need it. As human being  we have a tendency of not wanting to disappoint people we are close to so by sharing your plan you know that someone out there is counting on you to achieve your dream.

3. Stretch yourself when you can but always be mindful that there will be obstacles that will alter your plans and you might have to change your To Do List along the way. This is not failure, this is you adjusting to change.I have lost count of the many times that I had to deviate from my plans but I always get back on course.

4. When you have follow through part of your plan,treat yourself. Be proud of yourself and reward yourself for even the smallest achievement. I have a wish list, so when I feel that I deserve a reward for my hard work I will get myself something off my wish list!

5, Finally, when you are busy ticking off your To Do List and Wish List, never lose sight of your friends and family because life without your closest and dearest is not much of a life. Always make time for them and remember to enjoy your journey!



To Be Happier You Do Not Need…


Happiness is learning to say ‘no’ to the desires that drain you out


Once in a while I waver away from my blog simply because I need time to gather my thoughts as life is not being  kind to me…OK life is never kind, it is what we make it to be. Taking a step back and re-evaluate why you are not in a ‘happy place’ means you know you are not where you need to be.

I have heard this a thousand times-To be truly happy in this world you need: someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for.  I don’t think anything could be closer to the truth, but too often we forget about it and we find ways of complicating things for ourselves.  We look for happiness where it does not exist – in shallow goals and desires – in possessions and impressing the wrong people. We are all human so we have flaws, weaknesses, misjudgment and we get things wrong but what will make you different from others is the ability to sit down and realise that you are getting it wrong or saying to yourself “hang on…I am not happy and this needs to change.” There are so many things in our lives that we think is contributing to our happiness when in fact they are just bogging us down. I believe one of the best feelings comes when you realise that you can be perfectly happy without the things you once thought you needed.

These may be common in our lives, but rather than contributing to our happiness, they rob us of it. To be happier YOU DO NOT NEED:

  • To please everyone – Be careful not to give so much of yourself to others that you end up completely losing yourself (unfortunately I am quite good at this one!)  When you go around pleasing everyone but yourself, you are the one that gets hurt in the end.  The late and great Herbert Bayard Swope said it like this: “I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody.”
  • Everything to be easy – You have to do hard things to be happy in life. The things no one else is doing.  The things that frighten you.  The things others can’t do for you.  The things that make you question how much longer you can hold on and push forward.  Because those are the things that define you.  Those are the things that make the difference between existing and living – between knowing the path and walking the path – between a life of mediocrity and a life filled with happiness and success.
  • Certainty and guarantees – Some people build too many walls in their lives and not enough bridges. It sounds crazy, they are putting their happiness at risk.  Don’t be one of them.  Open yourself up.  Take chances.  Run free.
  • To be better than others – when we think everyone is our competition – when we think we have to be richer, smarter, and more attractive than the person sitting next to us, life wears us out. We become tired. Bottom line: Compete with yourself only! Just be a better version of yourself.
  • Perfect harmony in all relationships at all times – Harmony in relationships is nice when it’s sincere, but too often we try to fake it. Be honest about it, lying to yourself will not make things any better and certainly  it will not make you any happier. After all, the only way to be happy in life is to live with integrity.  This means: Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships.  Make choices based on what you believe in, and not just what others believe in. Effective communication is king. You have to talk it out sometimes, sooner rather than later!

Finally, absolutely no one is happy all of the time.  Because you simply can’t be happy unless you’re unhappy sometimes.  This is the harsh truth but even when life is less than blissful, you are still in charge of how you respond.  Choose positivity, always.  The greatest act of faith some days (I mean the down days!) is to simply get up and face the world.

Always remember ” To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” Have a great week and I am happy to be back🙂

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