Some of us are born people-pleaser, others do not give a quack about anyone but themselves. Whilst the latter will not care whether they get disapproval or rejection for just being who they are, the people-pleaser debates excessively in their mind the effect or consequences of being eliminated for just saying ‘No’ . Too often the people-pleaser forget that they are unique individuals who can actually move on and be who they want to be without validation from anyone. Saying YES and compromising your vision so you can be accepted should never be on your agenda if you actually want to say NO. Sometimes it is okay to be the one who doesn’t give a hoot, only then that you will truly be yourself. Life is about giving and receiving and acceptance and rejection. Only when you accept these two faces of life that you can truly be whole. Remember you always have a choice and if you are going to say no, say it with conviction.
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